Author: Adam Nisenholz

  • “FALL FLING” A GREAT SUCCESS

    Emerson Unitarian Universalist Church held the major fundraiser on the year on Saturday, November 5, 2016. Following is the message from Jacqui Tolin, the tireless organizer of the event:

    Emerson had a wonderfully successful Fall Fling Event again this year, bringing in over $16,000!

    There are still a few items with space, and we will keep you updated if you are interested in adding to your social calendar.

    We especially want to thank the many volunteers who stepped up to help with setting up, closing down, food, and support.  Having so many extra hands made everything work smoothly.

    Thank you to everyone for your help, your interest, and your input.

    If you have any questions, contact Jacqui Tolin at (747) 220-8040 or email at jtolin@gmail.com.

     The Fall Fling 2016 Team

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    The Organizer 
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     The Setup Volunteers
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    The Auctioneer
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    The Master of Ceremonies
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    The Raffle Sellers

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  • FALL FLING BROCHURE OF RAFFLE, AUCTION, & EVENTS

    Click below for the complete list of raffle items, live auction items, events, and gift certificates being offered at the 

    FALL FLING, Saturday, November 5, 2016, 6:30 to 9:00 p.m. 

     

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  • FALL FLING: Live and Silent Auction, Sat., Nov., 5, 2016, 6:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m.

    Saturday, November 5, 2016, 6:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m.

    Come to Emerson’s social event of the year—the Fall Fling!

    It’s also the biggest fundraiser of the year!

    $5 at the door includes delicious hors d’oeuvres and scrumptious desserts.

     

    FALL FLING  BROCHURE OF RAFFLE ITEMS,

    AUCTION ITEMS, EVENTS, AND FUN OFFERINGS.

    Click on the link below:

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    Sign up for your favorite events. Enjoy them throughout the year!

     

    Questions?  Call or email Jacqui Tolin:  (747) 220-8040   jtolin@gmail.com  or Pat Lyon: (818) 341-9324 plyon91306@gmail.com.

  • MINISTER’S COLUMN: Reflections on Disaffection and the Election

    By Rev. Matthew McHale, Minister

    matthewmchale@outlook.com

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    This past month I have found myself preoccupied with the presidential election. I read multiple articles a day about the latest developments: leaked emails, inflammatory language, and the results of the newest polls. Part of me is concerned for the future of this country, part of me can’t look away from the train wreck, and part of me finds the media circus entertaining in a “gallows humor” sort of way. Mostly, I am hate-watching (like a bad television show) this election.

    What is perhaps most troubling is the almost complete lack of substance. This has been an election almost entirely focused on personality and sensationalism. Yes, it was definitely important that we talked about sexual assault, as well as the undercurrent (overcurrent?) of bigotry, the sexism and xenophobia, the rampant lies, and dangerous threats to reject the elections outcome. Yet, the fact that we spent so much time on what amounts to a frightening sideshow meant that the serious political issues have largely disappeared from the discourse.

    I have been frustrated by the lack of substantive discussion about the disastrous potential consequences of Hillary’s plan to enforce a no-fly zone in Syria, or the future of our potentially endless “war on terror,” or what role America should take in the world, more broadly, when our status as the sole-superpower is shifting. We decry the alleged meddling of Russian hackers in our elections, while ignoring both our long history of helping overthrow numerous democratically elected governments, and how corporations and the super-rich have already wholly undermined the democratic process through unprecedented levels of political spending. (If there’s one thing we can be sure of this election, it’s that those who hold the power and the money, will win, regardless.) And, despite its being the biggest threat humanity has faced in its 200,000-year existence, not a single question about global warming was asked during the debates.

    Meanwhile, there has been almost no coverage of the historic events at the Standing Rock Reservation, where the largest gathering of Native Americans in over a century is protecting their ancestral lands and the waters from the construction of a massive shale oil pipeline. Nor that their peaceful presence and prayers are being met with attack dogs, riot gear, and military assault vehicles, in scenes reminiscent of the civil rights movement of the 1950’s and 1960’s. Nor that journalists are being arrested and charged while reporting the event. Likewise, Hurricane Matthew has already slipped from our consciousness, despite thousands dead and over a million still recovering in Haiti. We’ve heard little about the multi-billion dollars fraud perpetrated by Wells Fargo against its customers. The media largely ignored how the U.S. backed the soft coup in Brazil and how the Saudis have bombed civilians in Yemen using American airplanes.

    And because most of us have been so focused on the presidential election, we’ve largely ignored the local races, and the two dozen state, county and city propositions dealing with critical issues like the death penalty, pharmaceutical price-gouging, taxes on the wealthy, infrastructure spending, and environmental regulations. Since these are the places we can have the most impact—whether as volunteers, activists, or simply as voters—and that will have the most direct impact on our lives, it’s wise to put our energy there.

    In that spirit, I was just elected to serve on the Board for jUUstice LA. And I am excited to work with you and with other congregations to bring our Unitarian Universalist values to fight for equity, the economy and the environment in the greater LA area.

    As the election enters the final stretch, go ahead; turn your attention to something else. (Perhaps Emerson’s Fall Fling on November 5!) Since about half of all Americans are stressed about it, it might be good for you, and you’ll be a lot more likely to make a difference.

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  • WhATSON MY MIND: ByLaws: To Question Is the Answer

    By Tracy Watson

    Vice President, Board of Trustees

    tracyj.watson@yahoo.com

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    Do you ever wonder how often and when the congregational meetings get set? How many people are on the Board of Trustees and how long they can serve? What would happen if some members of the congregation wanted to take a position on behalf of Emerson on a controversial issue? What are the Nominating Committee, the Committee on Ministry, and the Search Committee?

    These and other questions are addressed in the Bylaws of Emerson Unitarian Universalist Church. The Bylaws are found on the Home page under the category “about us” and the subcategory “governing documents.” In eight easy-to-read pages, the basic organization is described and the mystery solved.

    Our Bylaws, however, are a living document. As Vice President, I serve on a committee of a minimum of three voting members of Emerson to review the current Bylaws and make recommendations regarding whether they can be improved or updated based on the current needs of the church.

    [Spoiler alert: our new minister has some ideas for changing the Bylaws!]

    The Board President may appoint members of the Bylaws Review Committee as needed. Does that sound like your cup of tea? Volunteers are invited to let us know that you would be willing to serve. As a bonus, you will finally get around to looking at the governing documents of this church. You may just find something useful!

  • ANNUAL FALL FLING AND AUCTION NOVEMBER 5, 2016, 6:30 to 9:00 P.M.

    Learn all about the wonderful auction items and events scheduled for the Fall Fling, Emerson’s biggest fundraiser of the year.

    Click on the link below.

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  • EMERSON UUC PUTS THE “FUN” IN FUNDRAISING

     

    Upcoming fundraisers at Emerson will be held on November 5, November 27, January 21, and March 11. Click on the link to learn more.

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  • SOUL MATTERS OCTOBER THEME: What Does It Mean To Be A Community of Healing?

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    As part of our participation in the Soul Matters program, each month our church community will be exploring the same theme together in Worship Services, in Religious Education Classes, and in our Small Group Ministries (which are also kicking off this month.)

     

    Well this one certainly seems easy to answer: it takes work. To be a community of healing requires dedication and a willingness to dig in – to fix what’s been broken, to listen away each others’ pain, to battle the bad guys and gals, to ask forgiveness when we are not the good guys and gals we so want to be. So yes, it is easy to remember that it takes work.

     

    But what if we just as easily remembered that it takes perception and sight as well?

     

    Or to be more exact, what if we remembered that healing always begins with perception and sight?

     

    Would we more easily remember that time we were blessed with the experience of looking through each other’s eyes? It wasn’t a perfect view. We weren’t able to see or understand “the other” completely. But we were at least able to see them differently. And in doing so, the healing began.

     

    Would we more easily remember the first time we felt seen? And how that made us want to give that gift to others?

     

    Would we more easily call to mind those moments when we were able to see our “enemies” in their wholeness? Those moments when our frames of them as all bad and us as all good gave way to the truth that they are as complex, fragile and flawed as us. Would we more easily tell the story of when we first realized that we were part of propping up the system? The system that subtly and not so subtly gives some a hand while keeping the hands of others so securely tied behind their back?

     

    Would we more easily remember what happened when we confessed our lie or admitted our addiction? How when we stopped trying to hide it from the sight of others, it somehow loosened its hold on us?

     

    There was a magic in all this looking, seeing and being seen. Remember that? In each case, we learned that healing is not entirely up to us. There was an otherness at work. We just got the ball rolling. We weren’t “the healers”; our wider view simply set the stage. Opened the door. Healing then slowly made its way in and joined us as a partner.

     

    And seeing healing as a partner – rather than solely as a product of our will and work – we were able to be more gentle with ourselves. We realized that manageable steps and doing what we can were just fine; heroics didn’t always have to be the way. We were able to put down the weight of the world for a while, knowing and trusting that healing had a life of its own – that it has the ability to grow and take root even while we rest, maybe even because we took the time to rest.

     

    In the end, maybe that is the most important thing to remember this month: besides always beginning with a wider view, healing also means making room for rest. Too often being a community of healing gets reduced to a matter of work, vigilance and never letting up. So we need these reminders that healing is a partner, not simply a product of our work.

     

    Maybe even trying to partner with us right now…

  • RE Matters: Joy at Church

     

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    By Emmalinda MacLean

    Director, Religious Education

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    I believe wholeheartedly that children will best absorb the values that our religion has to teach them if church is a joyful place, and I try to bring that belief into all of our religious education programming. Of course, the challenge is that children are not a homogenous block—everyone enjoys different things, and we can’t promise to make everyone happy 100% of the time, but this is why we have a covenant.

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    RE classes include lots of different types of activities, and I try to hit as many learning styles and kinds of intelligence as I can from month to month, but I know better than to think that every child will be thrilled with every lesson plan. My hope, however, is that all of our church’s children learn that we value their interests and feelings, that they can still be in community with people who are different, and that spiritual meaning can be found in unexpected places.

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    Of course, I hope those things for everyone who comes to Emerson, adults included, and we have lots of opportunities to get involved if you’re looking to stretch, grow, find joy, and feel valued! Below are a few pictures of recent fun times in RE, and the year ahead promises to bring much more. Thank you to all of the families who have chosen to make our church a part of your children’s lives!

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  • MUSICAL MUSINGS: Sum Of Its Parts > Weakest Link

    By Scott Rieker

    Director, Emerson Choir

    scott@scottrieker.com 

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    Aristotle said that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Paul of Tarsus expanded upon that, explaining that all those parts are interconnected, interdependent, and equally essential for the success of the whole. Then, some “motivational speaker” concocted the aphorism, “a chain is only as strong as its weakest link.” Which is it, then? Are we beings who can transcend our limitations to create great accomplishments, or are we destined to succumb to the lowest common denominator?

    If choir is any model, the truth lies with the former. The fatal flaw in the “weakest link” mentality is the failure to account for love: teamwork, caring, and mutual support. After services on September 11, 2016, six brave souls joined us for our first-ever “come and see” choir rehearsal. At first, some thought we were having choir try-outs, and—in a strange way—that was somewhat true. Except, we were giving folks the opportunity to “try out” the choir, not to try out for the choir.

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    It was an opportunity to experience the mutual support and interconnectedness that makes an ensemble successful. We were allowed to succeed together and to make mistakes together in a safe space. Individual mistakes lose their crippling gravity when a section of singers is working—as a whole—to sing the desired musical line. Individual limitations of tone, range, timbre, etc. recede as each singer contributes his or her own unique gifts and allows them to be united in synergy with those of the rest of the singers. On Sunday, we quickly began to make some beautiful music as a whole that was greater than the sum of its parts.

    I know that not everyone wants to be involved in music ministry. All of our brave attendees may discern that choir is an excellent fit for them and become choir members. Or, perhaps some will conclude that their time and talent are best used in other ways. Regardless, we must always remember: we are stronger than our weakest link. We are greater than our failures. We are more valuable than our worst deeds. This is true because we can love; we can cooperate; we can work together; we can transcend our weakness to discover our shared strength. Musically, this achieves extraordinary results in performance. In life, it shows how much meaning we each, individually and abiding together, actually have.